By Afraa Kori
Geoff Stokes has lived a life marked by service, resilience, and a deep sense of camaraderie.
His story reflects both personal growth and collective sacrifice, offering insight into the experiences of a British veteran who served during a pivotal period in history.
In the early 1950s, following World War II, Britain remained involved in global military operations.
He served in multiple regions, including during the Malayan Campaign and along the Hong Kong border. Geoff was also stationed in Germany, then a strategic NATO location during the Cold War. These postings were part of Britain’s efforts to navigate a shifting global landscape in the aftermath of war.
Before his conscription, Geoff had completed an apprenticeship in mechanical engineering. Transitioning from the autonomy of civilian work to military life was scary.
Training lasted six weeks, after which he was assigned a role as a technical assistant. Though not on the front lines, this position still required him to adapt quickly to military discipline. Roles were assigned based on aptitude and education, leaving little room for personal preference.
Despite the initial challenges, Geoff eventually embraced the structure and solidarity of military life. He valued the strong bonds formed with fellow soldiers, describing how they trained and functioned as a unified team. “We all take it all, we’re taught, we’re trained, and we’re trained as a team,” he said, emphasizing the importance of shared experience and support.
One of the most profound outcomes of his service was the personal development it fostered. Geoff’s time in the army strengthened his resilience and taught him how to face adversity with calm determination. These lessons shaped his character well beyond his years in uniform.
Amid his service, Geoff also found enduring love. He married during his time in the army and suprisingly distance strengthened their bond.
“I still have my loving wife, who was my sweetheart then, and we’ve now been married 73 years,” he said.
His wife’s unwavering support helped him endure the difficulties of military life, reinforcing the idea of home as a place of comfort and strength.
Looking back, Geoff speaks of the importance of empathy, unity, and understanding—values that guided him throughout life.
“You have to share everything, and remember that everyone’s different, and that we’re all trying to do the same thing,” he reflected.
While many veterans struggle with the psychological aftermath of war, Geoff did not experience such challenges. At the time, mental health was rarely discussed, something he notes when reflecting on how far public attitudes have come.
Anzac Day holds special meaning for Geoff. Although he served in the British Army, he respects the shared sacrifices of veterans worldwide. “It’s remembering, lest we forget,” he said.
Today, Geoff Stokes’ life stands as a testament to the enduring strength of the human spirit. His time in service, though demanding, helped shape a man who deeply values camaraderie, family, and the lessons of his past.
