By BEN CAMERON
Struggling families need a hand this Christmas…
CHRISTMAS is a time of joy for many families, but for an Officer father of six, it’s a reminder of how tough life can be.
It was around this time last year the 39-year-old was assaulted by his partner in front of their three youngest children, all aged under nine.
“It was a regular occurrence (in the relationship) and between the two of us, we were both to blame,” he said.
So in order to protect them, he left the “on and off” relationship of over 20 years.
It was not a difficult decision to make; it had to be made.
“I felt this was my last chance,” he said.
“DHS were heavily involved and I could have lost my kids,
“I left after that final assault, which is when I stopped drinking.
“I broke the cycle of drinking together, the violence, I no longer wanted to take part in any of that, raising my kids had to be top priority.
“I haven’t had a drink since then, and am working on getting my life together.
“My partner is still drinking, and unfortunately stuck in that cycle.
“DHS are no longer involved, I am raising my kids and doing everything by the book.
“It still is difficult at times, as their mother is still drinking which presents some challenges.”
He admitted he dreaded the festive season; a reminder that as a single father who can only work part time, he struggled to get food on the table.
“Christmas should be a time of joy and happiness, but I feel as though I can’t give my children what other kids their age might take for granted,” he said.
Luckily, he’s had the help of Windermere, so his children will have something to smile about on Christmas Day.
They’ve provided gifts for his three youngest children, aged four, eight and 12, and a food hamper.
“This would help ease the financial burden, and give the kids something to look forward to on Christmas day,” he said.
“It also gives us something special to enjoy as a family.”
Cardinia Shire residents can do their bit for those less fortunate in our community by donating to Windermere’s Merry Mission gift and hamper appeal.
Windermere chief executive officer Dr Lynette Buoy encouraged residents to donate new toys or non-perishable items to the appeal.
“Many local families are feeling the strain of everyday living, and will find it tough to celebrate the festive season with the presents and hearty meals that many of us take for granted,” she said.
Donations of new toys and/or non-perishable food items can be made until 5pm Friday 5 December, by contacting Windermere on 9705 3200 or emailing events@windermere.org.au
